I have been fortunate enough to take part in a few different groups that have a way of helping people to see the best in themselves. I try to be kind to people that are some times unkind and I could easily give up, but I am going to continue to be kind and hope that if I continue to be kind it will have a positve impact.
The moral to the story is just be nice. That means always. Not just when the person is right there, but when the person is not. Maybe even more so. It is so hurtful to speak of some one when they are not present. It changes other peoples opinion of someone. Have you ever formed an opinion of some one based on another person words. Is that not how manerisism are passed on from one person to another? Just by being around some one , you pick up on things they say and do. The sayings like our parents and grandparents used that we use, just because that was what we heard. Words. The tounge is a might rudder, it can steer you on or off course. The tounge has the power to help, or to hurt. To calm or to anger, to create happyness or sadness. If your tounge is not speeking kindness, you may want to chew on it until you have something nice to say, or don't say anything at all.